Monday, May 16, 2011

WE ARE MARRIED..!!

with this entry i hereby close this wedding journal officially for one reason:


..i am happily married.


thanks to everyone who has been reading this blog especially those frequent ones.. i appreciate that sooo verrrry much..


by the way, if i have extra things to share about weddings/its preparation, i'll write them in my primary blog oke?


http://awinh.blogspot.com/


regards,

Awin Hashim


Tuesday, May 3, 2011

hadiah.

bila kahwin, mestilah dapat hadiah kan..kalau org tu tak kasi hadiah pun, msti kalau salam tu salam berisi..that is malay custom..nice..nice..custom..heheh :)..kedengaran mcm mengambil kesempatan, tidak sebenarnya..cuma menghargai adat dan budaya bangsa sendiri.

duit salam tu, alhamdulillah, both rumah kita dpt agak bess..tak perlu lah nak sebut berapa..cukuplah utk adik-beradik both side kami KAYAKAN dan mak dan ayah lagilah kami MEWAHKAN..dan alhamdulillah ada lebih, kami bawa ke trip ke Indonesia baru-baru ni.

hadiah?? yes,, sepatutnya entry ni cerita fasal hadiah.. hadiah yang kami terima dari both sides of wedding sangatlah membantu..hadiah dari win's side lebih byk dpd wan's side..and alhamdulillah tak byk yg sama..;P

cuma kami mewah dgn periuk nasi, kami dapat 4 yg biasa + 1 yang multi cooker tu.. 1 dpd boss office depan, satu dpd buu, satu dpd boss wan..yg lain lupa dpd siapa..sorry peeps!



my immediate and current boss sendiri kasi microwave..he attended my wedding..i like!











n ex-boss yg cool tu kasi goblet yg comel *suke3x* dan kotaknya mcm treasure chest tu..wahhhhh!!! (btw puan, u forgot to cabot the price tag..heheeheee..i like!)


dlm entry 'wishlist' (http://awinthinksitstime.blogspot.com/2011/03/wishlist.html) kan i mentioned that we are going to be sehelai sepinggang sahaja kan, that was really true.. and lepas wedding my side, hadiah yg kami dpt dah cukup pun, tapi lepas wedding both sides, sgt sgt sgt cukup..alhamdulillah and terima kasih!

kami ada periuk nasi, kettle, microwave oven, iron, bedsheet, blender, deep fryer, cutlery, pisau, dinner set, coffee maker, cake mixer, tea set, periuk yg tak melekat, periuk set, lampu yg comel dr lovely lace lagi!, barbeque set n perhiasan like goblet, frame etc, lingerie pun ada (hahah), n hair dryer, water heater...hampir semua yg ada dlm wishlist kami dpt..*suke100x*..ada jugak yg tak dpt like vacum cleaner, dvd player and corningware tu..n of course benda besar lagi mhl like refrigerator and washing machine of course kami expect mmg kena beli sendiri..heheh..
semua yg kami dpt tu pulak, semuanya dpt lebih daripada 1..kecuali microwave oven n cake mixer je yg dpt 1..yg laen at least ada 2..

makanya, kami yg asalnya sehelai sepinggang, menjadi lengkap..syukur..! *SUKEGILER*

terima kasih kawan yg kasi hadiah, yg kasi duit salam, yg kasi both, yg dtg..n yg wish us well,..



antara hadiah2 yg dibungkus comel, my favourite














p/s sekiranya hadiah anda tidak disebut, maaf ya..dah mula lupa..it has been more than a month ago..:)..


hadiah2 yg ada dlm gambar ni..tak sampai separuh pun, the rest, dapat later..n during wan's wedding..

Friday, April 29, 2011

Majlis Menyambut Menantu

Sorry dah lama tak update blog!



Oke,,Majlis Menyambut Menantu diadakan pada 2 April 2011 bertempat di rumah wan iaitu di sg merab, kajang..on the way tu, sempat kami men-snap gambar penunjuk arah kami
n sempat juga gambar di bawah di-snap..




(and yes,, pengantin drive sendiri..bukan apa takot terlambat atau apa2 yg tidak diingini terjadi..kalau apa2 jadi kami berdua mesti kena smpai on time..heee)




ada banyak sangat hiccup pada hari tersebut..some of them, i don't even want to state it here..yg dah sudah tu sudah la kan? oke..hiccup pertama ialah pengapit lelaki, adik wan, dia ada pertandingan debat pagi tu..sempat dia pegi berdebat dulu..then almost terlewat sampai ke rumah pengantin oke?? dalam hati tuhan sahaja tau how panic i was back then, tapi tak berani tunjuk sebab wan lagi super duper panic, and i did not want to add more burden to him kan? fhm kan?





anyway, pengapit-pengapit adalah terdiri daripada adik-adik pengantin yang tercinta, adik wan dan adik win..si ira..family win yang dtg pun ramai..dah lupa rombongan berapa kereta. tp hampir semua yang expected utk dtg, datang. alhamdulillah.








Sedihnya bila fikirkan lepas ni dah tak akan jadi pengantin dah.. tapi gembira bila fikir dah tak payah berpenat/berstress/bersusah payah nak prepare wedding lagi...like,, EVER! alhamdulillah




EVERYTHING WENT PERFECTLY AS PLANNED.. *suke*

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Majlis Bersanding - Part 2

Sambungan daripada entry yang lepas.. Lepas berarak (diiring dengan lagu kompang,) kami pun bersanding atas pelamin..everything when soooo smoothly, no one fell, or tersalah langkah..hehehe *suke*

Bila dah duduk elok2 atas pelamin, DJ pun panggil orang bacakan doa..di sini anda semua kena tahu satu perkara, pilih pembaca doa anda betul-betul. Doa perlu dibaca dengan terang dan lancar, kalau semua orang dengar lagi bagus..supaya semua orang pun boleh aminkan, barulah berkat. Jadi, sila JANGAN pilih pembaca doa yang bila disuakan microphone pun tak kedengaran suaranya. di sini saya rasa annoyed sedikit. ternampak kelibat ayah yang juga annoyed sbb bacaan doa langsung tak kedengaran. lepas microphone dirapatkan lagi ke mulut pembaca doa, masih tak kedengaran apa yang disebutnya,.(makin slow pulak).. tapi later on, saya tersenyum sendiri.. now we know, not everybody can recite prayer in front of public. it's oke,, we didn't know that u have darah gemuruh. :)

next? yes, renjis-merenjis, tepung tawar,. mungkin orang skrg rasa benda ni terpesong. but for me and my family, benda ni adalah suatu perkara simbolik yang hanya menunjukkan bahawa ahli keluarga (yang menepung-tawar) merestui perkahwinan kami.. nothing more., seriously, tak ada jampi serapah, memuja2 dan sebagainya. SIMBOLIK oke? faham?..bermula dengan abah dan mak wan,,







then my parents,..






then wan's brothers,.and extended family wan,






followed by my sisters and my extended family..meriah, sgt,,. masa merenjis ni ada jugak yang tidak puas hati,, dia ingatkan dia tak ada turn,, padahal kalau dia sabar sedikit je, nama dia dah kena panggil dah pun!! malu la sikit!..kita hidup dalam masyarakat yang aman dan harmoni, janganlah ada yang suka buat scene tak tentu fasal. karang malu sendiri..:) masa merenjis ni juga kompang pun tak berenti berlagu2..kompang saya best, dibawa khas oleh wan dari sg.merab, kajang..


lepas bersanding dan merenjis, kami makan beradab.. lauk sedap sangat,, tapi mcm biasa pengantin memang tak makan banyak pun kan? bukan sebab malu2 or cover cun ke apa..tapi sebab fikirkan tetamu ramai, lebih baik kami pergi salam2 tetamu yang dtg tu, maka, makan pun express..tapi sempatlah kenyang jugak. hiasan meja pengantin semua katerer yang provide, tapi ada empat bunga meja yang kecil dan comel dan gorgeous yang saya sediakan menggunakan fresh flowers..:) thanks to azira, all centrepieces adalah idea majlis pertunangan dia sebenarnya..


Next, baju tema my family! beberapa bulan sebelum wedding, masa tahun 2010 lagi, ada seorang colleague yang nak pergi ke jakarta..so, since kami tak kesampaian nak pergi sana sendiri, maka saya pesan kepadanya untuk belikan kain lace untuk mak dan sisters dan pengapit saya.. kain satinnya ialah putih krim.. bila dah jadi baju, cantik sangat..rugi si pengantin ni tak beli satu utk dirinya sendiri *sigh*..:) tema family memang sengaja lari daripada warna pengantin.. sebab, kalau pengantin pakai lace, mereka pun lace, warna sama, nanti orang tak cam pula siapa yang pengantin..kan? kalau bukan material sama mcm pengantin, pasti mereka juga dibenarkan pakai merah..cuma ada juga yang mengamuk bila pakai baju kaler terang2, muka nampak hitam je. dah la kami kulit tak berapa nak cerah. tapi itu sekadar komplen tak berasas, sbb semua tak nampak hitam pun oke sisters (and mak) ??? haha



btw, yang lelaki pakai kain satin yang cerah jugak, putih krim2 sikit..termasuklah baju pengapit lelaki pun kain yang sama + tempahan ditanggung oleh pengantin lelaki. di sini, reminder kepada bride-to-be out there ialah, kalau beli kain lace untuk adik-beradik, or bridesmaid, ke apa ke, ingat2 lah sikit bahawa nak tempah kain lace ni mahal sikit dpd kain biasa, takot nanti mereka merungut sebab kena keluar duit lebih..solutions? kalau ada budget lebih, cover la sikit duit tempah.. kalau tak, jangan guna lace atau apa2 kain yg ada lining (utk elak kos tempah naik 2x ganda) beli kain biasa yang comel shj.

family wan semua pakai warna merah.. adik beradik lelaki dia pakai baju sama..semangat juga..I LIKE!


Next, tetamu yang dtg majoritinya ialah kawan2 saya. yang ni pun I LIKE juga!!! well, saudara-mara kami tidak berapa ramai, mak pula tidak kerja, ayah pula sudah pencen, jadi kawan2 mak dan ayah tidak seramai mana..luckily, i went to 5 different schools + uitm + office mindef..setiap sekolah/tempat ada circle of friends yang lain..so, mereka semua dijemput..n tak sangka, ramai sangat yang dtg..n tak sangka kwn sekolah rendah pun dtg juga..! yang ini DOUBLE I LIKE!!





hahah..plus, kawan uitm win & wan share, jadi mereka ramai yang dtg side perempuan..



petang tu bila ramai orang dah beransur balik, n ada few yang baru sampai and dijamu kat dalam rumah, sbb katerer dah mula berkemas..masa tu, pengantin pun pergi karaoke satu lagu..mcm gila pula nyanyi ni..ahaha..kesian wan, terpaksa ikutkan saja..


then petang, potong kek kahwin yang super gorgeous and sedap tu, then kami keluar pergi outdoor photoshoot dengan abg din photographer.. pergi outdoor sama all sisters + my brother in law + rayyan zikry...ke tasik di kepong..tapi hari panas sangat, tak ada byk gambar tasik pun, yang banyak gambar hijau je..cantik juga..








balik daripada tu, kami bergambar dengan my extended family members pulak..mereka happy je petang tu,.in fact mereka happy sepanjang hari..i love them so much,,n i really want to thank them for being there for me..then mereka beransur pulang,

maka selesailah majlis bersanding 27 Mac 2011 dengan jayanya.. alhamdulillah.. p/s terima kasih mak, ayah, lin, abg zam, ira, yaya, cah..thanks very much! I LOVE ALL OF YOU SO MUCH! thanks azira jadi pengapit, thanks kawan2 yang hadir..thank u.:)

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Majlis Bersanding - Part 1


oke, sudah cukup cerita fasal majlis nikah. skrg semua org cuba fokus dgn majlis bersanding pula oke? majlis bersanding di rumah win pada 27 mac 2011 : one word "SMOOTH" alhamdulillah, kan?


kami telah memilih baju bersanding warna merah pekat. some say merah hati, some say maroon. baju tu direka khas berdasarkan my own kehendak oleh butik faszcreative, sungai buloh. selain baju bersanding, kami memang ambil butik tu utk pasangkan pelamin dan segala kelengkapan pelamin dan aksesori baju pengantin. pelamin dah dipasang pada hari khamis lepas, malam dlm pukul 11 mcm tu baru mereka selesai pasang. since kami tempatkan pelamin di porch, leceh pasang pelamin awal2 sebab nak kena jaga pelamin sampai dua mlm (khamis mlm dan jumaat mlm..dan sabtu mlm jugak so 3 mlm lah). tapi mereka tak free utk pasang jumaat. sabtu dah tak boleh sebab sabtu majlis nikah, nak guna pelamin tu utk ambil gambar.



orang katering dah sampai pukul 9.30 pagi, terus set up table and get ready. mereka sungguh mesra dan cekap,,.heheh,,cool,, i would recommend them..bukan sahaja murah, sedap, cekap lagi..i like!;.. meja pengantin kat bawah tu pun mereka sediakan tapi kek tak termasuk, itu beli dari orang lain.


http://restucateringcanopysdnbhd.blogspot.com/



ahad pagi, ada kumpulan marhaban seri delima tu dtg ramai2 bermarhaban di rumah. terus rasa meriah aje bila org bising2 kat bawah. kakak make up sampai dlm pukul 10 pagi mcm tu. jadi masa org bermarhaban, kita sebok bermekap dekat atas. abg dj pun dah sampai pukul 10.45pagi mcm tu..lewat sikit la sebab dia janji pukul 9.30pagi..tapi tak apa :)


hari ahad tak nervous mcm hari sabtu. seriously, tak nervous langsung. sebab? semua perkara dah let go utk diuruskan oleh family members, semua duit dah kasi dekat mak utk final payment diuruskan, family wan dah standby dekat surau berhampiran dari pukul 12 tengah hari. mereka on time (awal sebenarnya) sebab bersanding pukul 1 pm.


sambil di make up kan, pengapit kesayangan dan inangnya pun dah sampai. mereka terus buatkan handbouquet utk pengantin..boleh tak belum buat lagi masa tu..tapi bunga dah ada lah. remind me utk tulis entry fasal bunga ye, ada byk benda nak share fasal kembangnya bunga. bila dah sudah make-up, duduk kat katil, bergambar dengan si pengapit dan inangnya sambil abg din photographer pun melakukan tugasnya. then wan tanya, boleh ke awalkan berarak dan bersanding kita sebab family wan dah terlebih ready.. it was only 12.30pm..for me, i think lebih baik tunggu lagi sikit sebab dalam kad tulis bersanding pukul 1. tapi ayah said oke. jadi pukul 12.45pm kami pun berarak.

being centre of attention was A PIECE OF HEAVEN, tapi kalau terlalu berhati2 awkward jadinya. alhamdulillah, tiada siapa yg tersadung or what not on that day. tapi frust jugak sebab perarakan pengantin tu pendek sangat..berarak melepasi satu rumah aje. tapi tak apalah.. ada satu lagi silap yg tak cantik iaitu, the bride (i'm talking about me) was holding her handbouquet terlampau ke atas, depan dada dia..that was a mistake..nasib baik tak nmpak sgt silap tu..hehe..people, pegang plan nak pegang handbouquet kat paras mana ye! oh ye..pengapit saya sgt comel..i like..cume kesian tangan dia penat ;P

pemegang bunga manggar pun ada isu sedikit. niat di hati nak pinjam dua org anak sepupu utk pegang bunga manggar, but for some reasons yang tidak dpt dielakkan, mereka sampai lewat sikit. maka, saya tiada pemegang bunga manggar.. adalah dua tiga org budak berlari riang kat dlm rumah, tapi they are too young,,nnti dia bawa lari pulak bunga manggar tu..tak fasal2 je.. jadi i asked for my two adik cantik utk pegang bunga manggar.. dua anak dara pegang bunga manggar, oke jugak kan? siap pakai baju cantik lagi..lagi lah bagus..saya sayang pemegang-pemegang bunga manggar saya. they were awesome.! it wasn't even a hiccup. alhamdulillah.

~end of Part 1~

Friday, April 1, 2011

blog updates

dear reader,

this entry is just for u (yes, u!) sorry to inform u that i can't update this blog for the time being because as all of u know, this week is my wedding week. there are a lot of things i wanna share with u, a lot of photos too..but i can't find the time..

tomorrow will be my wedding at wan's side..the final wedding..so today and a few days after tomorrow, i will not be available to provide u with updates..soooo sorryy! but after everythings go calm again, i'll write u lot of entries oke? and photos too, i won't forget..

btw, u are aware that this is a wedding blog right? thus, there will be an ending soon to this blog..*sadness*.. but until then, i hope u'll look forward of reading all about the wedding!

love, hugs and kisses from me,
mazuin.


Wednesday, March 30, 2011

nikah - the aftermath

majlis nikah kami haritu mula selepas zohor..pukul 2.15ptg la jugak baru cukup korum..by 2.50ptg kami pun sudah married, n tetamu pun mula keluar dr rumah utk menjamu selera. tetamu keluar tu sbb mknn kite sediakan dkt porch tau, jgn la fikir tetamu kene keluar mkn sndiri2 pulak..hehe.

ptg tu, kami ada sesi tukar2 baju..tiga pasang baju..2 utk perempuan, 1 untuk lelaki..we had fun..kekoknya nak pgg2 wan dpn ramai org bile abg photographer suggest nk posing mcm mana! hahaha


Sepasang baju jawa lelaki dan perempuan dan baju lengga utk perempuan. baju lengga tu baju org hindustan yang kembang yang kalau menari pusing2 tu dia kembang. Baju Jawa dan Wan Org jawa betul2 dia pakai baju jawa tu dengan kain batik jawa, satu set. sedangkan pengantin lelaki yang nak pakai baju jawa selalunya malu nak pakai kain, maka mereka tukar dengan seluar, kain batik tu dipakai mcm samping. tapi my darling wan sangat sporting bila dia kata "OKE" kepada kain! jadi dia memang berpakaian serupa jawa betul2. ramai pengantin lelaki di malaysia ni tak akan nak pakai kain, tapi my one and only WAN nak..tu salah satu beza dia dengan dengan orang lain. then wan balik mlm tu with his brothers, after selesai semua..


oh ye album gambar prewedding and tunang haritu baru je dpt masa hari nk nikah tu..cantiknya semua gambar..saya sgt happy..photographer ku bagusss.. kelewatan dia haritu bersebab, dan marilah kite lupakan..all because his work is superb!!!


my friends yang dijemput semua dtg..kecuali ada a few..i am blessed..kawan uitm law berderet penuh 1 meja..kawan2 mersing lagi..kawan2 segambut, and especially kawan2 baik berhampiran rumah! kwn2 ofis takde tp..tak apalah..it's oke :)


mknn guna caterer yg sama mcm kenduri tunang december lepas..since ramai invitees hari nikah sama dgn invitees hari tunang, maka mereka perasan jgk mknn tu sama..tp tk apa lah..janji sedap! n yess mknn sdap oke? hahaha


sedara mara pun dtg..alang and the gang mmg dtg, mereka sungguh cool..ucu pun! pak ngah ada jugak..keluarga sebelah ayah pun tak tinggal..ada cik esah..(cik yot pun ada tp tak sure dia dtg sbtu or ahd) n dearest paman halid pun dtg..saya sungguh happy!


majlis seriously went well. alhamdulillah ya allah..:)))


p/s baju nikah, despite kejadian haritu, it turned out oke sgt! i like.

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

nikah - perasaan saya.

cerita fasal perasaan oke?

bila masuk hari sabtu, perasaan ni dah jadi berkecamok yg teramat sgt.. sebab nervous + byk benda nak fikir n nak uruskan. tp alhamdulillah, sampai je kak as (kakak make-up saya yg comel) ke bilik pengantin utk start melakukan kepakaran dia, saya telah berjaya utk let go, i stopped thinking about everything, except being pretty during the majlis.. jadi, muka pun tersenyum je lah..

masa dah siap make-up, masa nak pakai baju nikah tu, tiba-tiba perut ni shrink..like literally, from inside..so, after dah salin baju, kak as nak pakai kan tudung, masa tu mulut tak berenti ckp kat kak as, "kecutnya perut saya ni" ..."eii takotnya"... dan beberapa keluhan lain..

perasaan masa tu hanya tuhan saja yg tau, (and of course org yg dah nikah dia tau lah jugak, sbb dah penah rasa)..n saya adalah si perempuan..bayangkan lelaki yg memang ada tanggungjawab masa hari nikah tu, mcm mana la dia nye nervous??

so, disebabkan terasa berat pulak nak bayangkan perasaan wan, i called him.. hahahahha n guess what, he didn't say much...dia seboleh-bolehnya tak nak ckp fasal nervousness..dia kate "wan nak focus" kesian dia..dia tak pernah se-nervous tu.. darling, u were obviously nervous, and that's cute..

tiba-tiba mak naik atas and ckp "wan dah sampai, turunlah" hadoi...!! gile..!!!!!! masa ni, jantung rasa nk tercabot, kaki terketar-ketar nak turun tangga, tangan sejuk, senyum terasa pelik..dah tak nmpak org kiri kanan..that was the most nervous part of all.,

bila dah duduk kat tepi wan, atas bantal nikah tu, wan pun masuk, and duduk atas bantal nikah tu..then tok kadi start..masa ni, perasaan saya adalah tenang..sebab, i know that that was happening and i know that wan's role was greater, and i should just sit and be pretty and just listen carefully to whatever the kadi had to say..mana la tau kot-kot dia tanya something masa aku tengah berangan ke?? hahahaha

rupanya, pihak perempuan yg kena keluar suara dulu..baca lafaz yg ada dlm borang tu..nasib baik masa tu tenang aje..mcm mana tak tenang, serasa saya, saya hanya nampak 5 org je dlm rumah time tu..wan, tok kadi, dua org saksi dan ayah. org lain sume saya tak nampak walau pun mereka duduk disekeliling ruang tamu yg penuh dan sesak..hahaha *tenang konon!* hahahahah

perjalanan majlis nikah:

after perempuan baca lafaz tu, ayah pulak baca lafaz wali dia..dia wakilkan kt tok kadi utk nikah kan..then tok kadi baca khutbah nikah..(ada khutbah oke?? baru aku tau)..

then tok kadi suro sign a few forms, (which i didn't bother knowing what were those forms that i signed)..ayah pun ada sign2..and of course wan pun..

after that tok kadi bisik dekat wan, hanya yg lima tu je yg dengar sbb tok kadi btul2 bisik, dia minta wan test baca lafaz kabul tu..wan pun sebut (berbisik jugak) "aku terima nikahnya mazuin bt hashim dengan mas kahwinnya 80ringgit tunai." then tok kadi tu beritau yg lafaz utk kl lain..hilangkan both "nya" tu.. then wan angguk faham, tapi tak test lagi pun.. masa tu terfikir jugak, wan btulke faham? tak perlu ke test dulu lg skali?

and then tok kadi hulur tangan..masa tu..peluh sejuk semua dah makin sejuk dan terus membeku..seram.ahahaha..then terus tok kadi sebut ijabnya..then dia goyang tangan sikit dan wan terus sebut kabulnya..then tok kadi tanya saksi, both kata sah..

ya allah..i'm married..one word "indahnya" pernikahan tersebut.

then ada lafaz ta'liq by wan, then doa + tok kadi inform sikit tentang apa nk buat dengan sijil nikah tu nnti..then abiss..

so, nikah = CHECKED!

alhamdulillah..

selesai..selamat sudah kami..saya skrg memiliki sijil nikah sementara. Kesayanganku, Wan, who was my classmate, turn to best friend then boyfriend, is no longer a fiance of mine, he is now my husband. i'm blessed and proud to introduce, Wan, my husband..
(my husband..husband?..yess..husband..& this gelaran needs getting used to..)

masa gamba ni di-snap, wan belum cium dahi win lagi..
(cium dahi is my favourite part of nikah day, after a perfect one-time kabul yg dilafazkan dengan lancar oleh suami saya)


hah..favourite part..
gambar-gambar ni dipinjam daripada zaima (pinjam ye zaima)
sbb of course album kahwin belum siap and byk gamba belum smpat nak upload lagi..


seronoknya..lega sangat..persiapan yang panjang, sibuk, menyeksakan telah tamat..dan sekarang saya boleh peluk husband saya kuat-kuat dengan halal..hehe.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

it's 26 March 2011


i am going to be married today..! keluarga wan dah sampai..WAN DAH SAMPAI..mak dah suro turun..kaki ni apsal terketar-ketar..*control, jgn smpai jatuh tangga!* oke, i'm going down the stairs now, within half an hour, i'll be WAN'S WIFE..like, for real..

Friday, March 25, 2011

hiccup - inai

inai bunga2.

plan asal tak mahu inai lukis bunga2 atas tgn tu, tp later i changed my mind for 1 reason, nak tutup parut melecur yg kena masa dinner date dgn wan dkt johnny's..parut hodoh itu perlu di-cover.

since saya tak book mana2 org pelukis inai, sedangkan dah hari khamis (2days before nikah day), we went to jln masjid india, kl..cool gile mereka lukis, cantik, secantik lukisan inai org2 pelukis inai "professional" yg mana mereka menjalankan business through blogs and facebook tu..alaaa yg caj mahal tu.. and guess what, lukis inai dkt jln masjid india ni teramat murah berbanding pelukis inai pro punye caj..95% cheaper than those "professional", trust me!

tp jgn sebut nak kawen tau..sebut nk saje2 je pakai inai tu..sbb kalau sbut nk kawen, caj dia melonjak naik 2-3 kali ganda, for the same service..gile cekik! walaupun maseh lg murah dpd those "pro" people..tp..hmm fikir la sendiri kan.

di jln masjid india punye inai tu dia guna chemical jugak..jadi lebih baik test dulu. takot allergic. bley thn 5 hari katanya..tp hari ni dah hari 6, my inai still ada..:) lepas dia lukis, lepak la situ dlm 20 minit..then dah kering, trus bley tanggal n chow..sekejap je..nama pun chemical..kalau inai daun tu kena kot semalaman..dats y "pro" dtg rumah utk lukiskan, kalau tak cne kau nk balik?

ke ats kulit saya inai tu tak tinggal apa2 side effect..gatal pun tidak, mybe kulit kering sikit je..

inai cap kt hujung jari.

hari khamis, malam jumaat, adalah hari saya nk pakai inai kt jari..inai yg letak kt ruas jari tu..then mak pun bersusah payah petik daun inai kt belakang rumah, dicampurnya gambir..n voila! siap..so lepas abes semua kerja hari khamis, dah siap2 nk tido, mak pun pakaikan inai..mmg sengaja nk pakai khamis, so, kalau tak pekat, esok bley pakai lagi,.

bila dah pakai, rupanya inai tu terlebih berair, jadi dia tak mau lekat kat jari..tp warna dia cantik,.,.jari2 mak yg memakaikan tu dah merah dah..tp tak mau lekat..jadi mak kata, takpelah, esok je la pakai..so mlm tu tido je la..

esoknya dah hari jumaat lah kan, jumaat malam sbtu tu, lepas dah ready semua, maka kami pun attempt lagi sekali..kali ni dia lekat di jari..tp lepas 15minit pakai, dia mengering dan terjatuh..bila jatuh, tgk kuku/kulit jari tu tak merah pun.oren pun samar2 je..n guess what..it was already 1 o'clock in the morning..kami attempt lagi..then akhirnya pukul 2.30 pagi, inai tu oren sikit je mcm kaler kunyit kalau kita main kunyit nk goreng2 ayam/ikan tu je..

*CUAK* dah nak nangis dah..(mungkin dah nangis) tp tahan je, kol 2 ptg nnti nk nikah dah..kalau nangis skrg, mata bengkak karang lagi teruk.

last2 cari balik inai tiub.. ada! n before that ira pakai dlm masa sejam kuku dia dah merah/oren cantik..tp slalu pakai kt kuku je, inai tiub tak pnah pkai kt kulit pulak, so takot tak lekat kaler dia..

tp apa nk buat kan? tinggal 12jam sebelum nikah, and inai pun belum pakai.! so test je la..ira dengan selamba dia pakaikan.kaki dan tangan..belum abis dia pakaikan, lebih kurang kol 3.30 pagi tu, i fell asleep..kesian dia..tinggal sorg2..pakaikan smpai siap..taktau pukul berapa la siapnya tu..

n of course, it turned out WELL.. i would give ira a big hug and kiss, but saya malu..hehehe thank u little sis..i owe u one..BIG time!

lesson of the day, walaupun inai tak bley prepare awl2, tp sebulan sebelum wedding, try-try la survey inai ye..kalau oke, stick to that one..kalau tak oke, tgk2 inai lain jadikan back up, inai tiub yg bli kt mydin tu sgt membantu..try la awl2..nnti sehari seblum kawen terus pakai je confirm oke..jgn tunggu las minit baru nak cuba n cari back up,,nnti nanges.! haha

rama-rama

dalam perut saya ada rama-rama besar (there is a big butterfly in my stomach).. terasa makin rancak rama-rama tu berjoget bila tgk ticker di atas menunjukkan tinggal 1 hari shj lagi..(cuba tgk tgn pengantin kt ticker di atas,, dah pgg dah..hehe.esok bley pgg tgn wan, tuhan izinkan dah..*senyum*)

mmg mcm ni ke semua bride-to-be akan rasa? haritu masa nk bertunang pun kecut perut..inikan pulak nak nikah.

harini bolehla ckp ayat ni, "esok, saya akan dinikahkan dgn tunang saya" :)

anyway, smlm tok kadi dah kol utk reconfirm time and place of nikah..mak oi garangnya suara tok kadi..gasaklah wan nnti.hehehe, nasib baik org laki yg kene sebut kabul tu nnti..nasib baik org perempuan tak payah ckp apape selain "setuju!"..always remember awin, sebut "setuju" nanti sopan2, oke?

inai 1st round dah pakai..pelamin dah pasang..i'm telling myself, "this is really happening", tapi kenapalah sampai harini still rasa mcm mimpi??

semalam dan hari ni berderet pulak org ckp tak bley dtg to my wedding..nak tahu apa perasaan saya? sedih sgt2. like seriously. i know that they have reasons..tp still..kwn2 saya tak mau dtg wedding saya! :(
from now on, if i can't attend someone's wedding, i should not tell her a day or two days before her wedding..because i don't want them to be devastated, like me. :(((((..skrg saya terus takot mau baca sms dr kwn2, msg kt inbox facebook and especially wall kt event facebook.sbb saya takot terbaca msg "mazuin, sory..." :(( dah la tak usah fikir. mari kita fikir tentang keseronokan esok :)..

so, what's happening today? wedding cake sampai..bunga sampai, bley buat hntaran, n hias bilik pengantin..oh yess.."isi" utk doorgift juga smpai hari ni..at least one of them..:) lg satu esok br smpai..
kwn2 yg nk tolong2, mlm ni tak pyh dtg pun takpe, esok lepas nikah stay smpai mlm laaa..sbb esok lah byk benda nk buat :)

i love u perempuan2 ku, ur here when i need u the most,, i'll balas budi kamuorg bila "hari" kamuorg masing2 smpai nnti ye?

Thursday, March 24, 2011

2 more days to go

sejak cuti haritu, masa dah terasa makin suntuk, dats why tiada entry baru..:(,. byk benda dah jadi dlm 2-3 hari ni.

1st, my good friends from mrsm mersing dah buat satu bachelorette dinner for me. it was a blast. best sgt bila ada org ingat kite..:)))))))) *naksenyumbykbykkali*.. mybe later in december, i'll throw them a bachelorette slumber party pulak. harap2 sempat. :) i'll try my best. girks,,i know u r reading this..zillion thanks to u girls, i will not forget that night., forever. n the gift..stiap kali kite pakai msti teringat awk2 semua..oppps, hahaha, anyway bila ada msa nnti, kite upload gmba ye, tak smpat.! sori!!

2nd, ada satu insiden baju nikah yg menyayat hati. i thank allah soooo very much for listening to my prayer and mengizinkan perkara tersebut diselesaikan dgn cpt.alhamdulillah..yang ini i can't share with u people. maaf ye, cuma, jgn lupa smbahyang..insyaallah dia akan tolong.

3rdly, kejadian bunga telur. my mum tgh pegi beli telur, i was at home dia call suro check if telur gred b muat letak dlm kain net bunga telur tu. so i did. terkejut monyet i bile mendapati bhw net bunga telur yg bli kt nilai 3 tu nak balut jari pun tak muat..haha naseb hari tu baru selasa. sempat nk repair. sejumlah kecil je mcm tu..bukan semua..n mlm smlm, mak dan ira tolong, semua da selesai. alhamdulillah.
kwn2, duduk bersilalah anda di kedai utk kira bunga telur yg anda bli tu satu per satu. if dlm satu kotak ada 50 pttnya, pastikan..n check net nya!

4th, smlm kami cari paper bag. dulu semua paper bag kt nilai harga rm2.80 per paket (isinya 10)..sekarang semua rm3.30.. wlaupun beza cuma rm0.50, cuba bygkan kalau anda bli 1000 keping..jadi, pegi kedai hujung2 yg lgsung takde org, usha..kot-kot ada yg rm2.50 ke? trust me, ada!.. tp bear in mind, harga ni 2011 punya hrga. kalau kau nk kawen 3thn lg, of course tk dpt dah hrga mcm tu. :)

5th, baju dan aksesori utk snding kt rumah wan dah amek smlm..lega! hari ni,khamis,, diorg nk dtg pasang pelamin dah. i guess this is really happening!

6th, i love my bakal suami more and more everyday..:) i'm happy!..

Thursday, March 17, 2011

invitation card~

99.99% kad jemputan sudah keluar...ramai jugak yang di-tag di facebook..masih sempat kalau mereka nak kad skrg..mintak ye..please ;)

so,
jemputan = CHECKED!

tak jadi blacklist

semalam kami pergi fitting keseluruhan baju2 yang nak dipakai pada 26/27 Mac dan 2 April. Alhamdulillah semua oke. though ada jugak yang kena alter sikit lagi..tapi everything's fine..

butik pengantin di bangi itu tak jadi utk di blacklist.. one-time mistake is forgiveable. they did oke yesterday. i'm happy :))))

pick up baju 23 Mac 2011..iaitu 4 hari sebelum majlis..

(iaitu 5 hari dari sekarang sbb tinggal 9 hari sahaja lagi..arhhhggggghh!!)

semua baju bersanding/persalinan/gown = CHECKED!
pelamin both sides = CHECKED!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

BLACKlist

selain kedai kad kahwin yang durjana itu, ada satu lagi yang bakal di-blacklist kan soon. sebuah butik pengantin yang tak berapa pandai buat kerja. Sepatutnya semalam ada date dengan mereka ni utk fitting. Nasib baik sebelum drive ke bangi yang tak berapa nak dekat tu kami telefon dulu..Rupa-rupanya mereka belum ready lagi.

Alasan demi alasan dihadapkan kepada kami. Alasan yang menipu pun ada. Bila win called, dia ckp "kakak sakit pinggang, baru lepas x-ray, tak ley bangun ni".. within 10 minutes, wan called, same person jawab "kakak hari ni uruskan majlis tunang.."..

terkejut bila dengar wan cerita ni. so i asked "wan, betul ke wan dengar dia ckp 'tunang' ke wan salah dengar 'tulang'?? sbb dia ckp dkt win dia sakit 'tulang'!"..
wan jawab "iya, dia memang ckp 'majlis tunang'".

ya Allah,, orang jenis apa yang aku tgh deal with ni? kalau tak ready, ckp je la tak ready, kalau ada emergency, ckp je emergency, WE WILL UNDERSTAND. skrg mereka dengan bodohnya menipu.

tak apa lah. petang kita jumpa ye, kalau kau spoil, aku chow.!

(masalahnya sempat lagi ke nak chow..??? Allahuakbar. i am freaking out)

Monday, March 14, 2011

wishlist

People, apa yg plg bermakna adalah kehadiran para jemputan..:) seriously. Tapi i created a wishlist anyway. Tujuannya utk kasi idea kpd u guys nak beli apa for us (win&wan) for our wedding, IF u guys plan to buy us present la..


apa yg saya sgt mahu adalah:

Barang-barang rumah, utk dapur, ruang tamu, bilik tidur..dsbnya..memandangkan kami akan terus move into a house after wedding nnti sehelai sepinggang shj.:) Contoh2nya adalah seperti berikut:

*washing machine*
*refrigerator*
*microwave oven*
*normal oven*
*vacuum cleaner*

*bedsheet*
*LCD TV*
*blender*
*rice cooker*
*deep fryer*
*dinner set*
*cutlery besi*
*set pisau*
*tea set*
*frying pan yg tak melekat*
*corningware utk hidang lauk*
*periuk kaca*
*cake mixer*

*dvd player*
*lampu yang cantik*
*barang hiasan*
*lingerie*

*lain-lain suka hati kamuorang, i don't mind :)*

U know i love pink rite? I would love them more if they are pink or white..but any other colour pun oke je..:) love ya! :)))

p/s if awak nak reserve any barang di atas sbb awak mmg nak kasi saya barang itu, awak kasi tau saya, saya padam supaya org laen boleh beli barang lain pula..:)

tengok tu, dah dekat!

sikit lagi bride nak sampai ke groom..
kesian groom tggu lama..dah lama dah tgn dia hulur cmtu..:)
Perasaan sebenar? Gelisah. Especially about the preparation of the wedding..

Friday, March 11, 2011

abg sham the D.J.

i told u how i came to find abg hisham DJ ni kan?..anyway, semalam, kami ada date dgn dia dekat mcD jalan pahang..tujuannya utk bayar deposit servis dia nnti...
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RM450 shj fee dia..kat kl ni dlm byk2 DJ, RM450 tu yg paling murah sekali..yg termahal yg pernah dijumpai is RM900..itupun sebab termasuk kompang, karaoke, DJ, pengacara majlis and penari kanak2 bagai..tak perlu kan? nottt! sbb kemuncak majlis is all about bride and groom..kalau ada budak2 menari, nnti dia amek spot lite tu pulak..hahahaha..! by the way, ini harga DJ majlis kahwin yg biasa2 ye..jgn expect yg grand..sebab i tak kahwin grand oke? :)
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by the way, he's nice and humble je..mmg pandai bercakap..mulut dia bercerita tak berenti-berenti. i hired him simply because dlm byk2 DJ yg pernah disaksikan secara live, dia yg plg bersahaja,.siap berjalan bwk mic ke arah pengantin yg tgh berarak utk memberi komen..padahal DJ lain berat b*nt*t nak bergerak ke sana ke mari, semua duduk je..so, he's different..i like that.
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have i checked DJ yet? if i haven't
DJ and PA system = CHECKED!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

fb events

selain kad jemputan, i have invited everybody through fb jugak, standard la kan? as much as i hate to admit, i am a facebook freak..asalkan online aje, msti bukak facebook dulu.
so, my event invitation to my wedding tu,. i notice ada yg dah post something kat my event wall, and then that post dissapear..hmm..(tulah sape suruh jadik facebook freak, yg itu pun u notice jugak..) deleted, i guess..it should mean something,kan? do i care? sadly..yess..

ntah la..nak buek camno..tak kuaso den doh..lalalaa~

hiccup lagi..! --ending--

please baca entry yg sebelum ini dulu, then baru baca entry yg ini kalau tidak kau spoil cerita, faham??

dalam masa diri ini berdebar-debar, jantung pun terstop-stop,, then he finally answered.
he answered.."yang raw masih ada, semua ada dlm cd..cuma yg editted je yg semua abes.."

oh kelegaan!..alhamdulillahirabbilalamin.

dia sambung ckp, "jadi abg d*n harap maz faham la.."

n i answered, "iyer lah, nak buat cmne..jgn rush la..take ur time"

dlm hati marah sgt, kalau dia hantar album tu on time, laptop dia belum kena curi kan? dah la lambat, mintak extension, then skrg force majeure took place, apa bley buat..mangsanya siapa? iyer..saya adalah mangsanya, and i am a paying customer.tak kasihan ke kat org yg sebok bertukang nak mendirikan masjid ni ha?
(force majeure means an occurence of something that is out of anyone's control)

apapun mmg dah dipesan supaya dia jgn rush. kalau tak byar mhl2, gamba asal siap je..takpelah abg d*n..take ur time, i'm not in a rush anyway,, just a bit frustrated,..

takpe, nnti masa wedding (yup, still with him), i'll make sure i'll hold a big amount of money sbg final payment..slagi u tak bg album or slagi i tak puas hati dgn album yg u bg walau on time sekalipun, i won't release ur money..when i say a BIG amount of money, i mean a BIG amount of money, faham?

i have to do this.. be fair to me. please.

kesimpulannya kwn2 bride-to-be, jgn kasi muka kt photographer anda atau sesiapa, kalau dia janji bulan februari,. korg telefon dia bulan februari. jgn tggu mac mcm saya br nak kol, oke?

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

hiccup lagi..!

last nite, i received a call from my very own dearest photographer..but before that..

do u remember that i got engaged on 18 Dec 2010?? i hired this photographer. he's good, in fact he's great..! he said my engagement album will be ready in february, although he was asking for 2 months ++, i said fine,.,.because i don't want to rush him lagipun i am busy preparing my wedding, no time to worry about him. because i trusted him. anyway, it was the 7th day of the march already!!, he still owe me the engagement album, in fact pre-wedding album pun blom kasik. i sms him and he asked for extension due to some problem, bla, bla,, bla,,i said oke lah..fine,.!

oke sambung ayat kat atas tadi..last nite, he called and tell me yang laptop dia kena curik..sedangkan dia tgh finalized my engagement punya album..all photos ada dlm laptop and laptop dia kena rembat!!!

oh sh*t..oh sh*t kan???? cuak oke..though i sympathized him for losing his laptop, but i was freaking out thinking that:

"OH EMM GEE..dah lah gambar bertunang i yg
cantik2 ada sikit je!..
dah la i takkan bertunang lagi dlm hidup yg sementara ini!..
abehla..ya Allah ya Tuhanku sedihnya"
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jadi serta merta soalan ni terpacul keluar dari mulut:
"jadi gambar tunang saya semua habislah?? dah takdelah???" dalam hati dah mula berkira2 duit nak hire lawyer, nak saman aje dia ni..
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n dia jwb "yg editted dah takde, abis langsung.."..
i asked again, "yg editted? ohh yg raw ada lagi ke takde jugak..??"
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and he answered..
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*astaghfirullahalazim*. cuak nak mamp oke aku ni??
to be continued.

kad saya comel?

*suke!!!!*

hari ni 9 haribulan mac,, dah 9 hari lah kad jemputan kahwin disebarkan kepada para jemputan.. ramai org puji kad tu..yeahhh!

entry ni bukan nk BERLAGAK ye atau apa2 yg seperti itu..just nak express feeling gembira yang teramat sangat dan bersyukur, yelah, setelah menghadapi karenah pencetak kad yang pain in the a*s sgt2..my cards turned out just fine..alhamdulillah..alhamdulillah..bersyukur..saya sgt gembira.

terima kasih kepada kwn2 yg memuji..u've made my day!!!! like,..seriously..HUGS&KISSES..

by the way, sapa nak kad masih boleh..bagik je alamat dgn apa cara sekalipun oke???
and please..please don't go tempah your invitation card dekat kedai kad kahwin amazon pertama complex..! if i hv to repeat this 1000 times, i will! :)

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

the list of final payments

dah dekat kan? tinggal 18 hari je lagi..*shivering*

so last nite, semua final payment telah disenaraikan utk tujuan:

1. nak re-count budget yg tinggal disebabkan terlampau byk yg over-spent!
2. memudahkan ibu tercinta utk menguruskan duit2 final payment yg bakal diserahkan kpdnya (keseluruhan jumlah) utk membantu pegang duit tu dan memastikan segala final payment dibuat..

byk benda dah settle,, most of the littlest hiccups hv also been taken care of..alhamdulillah..moga2 semuanya lancar.amin.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

final fitting~

dah selesai perjumpaan terakhir (sebelum hari wedding) dengan butik pengantin. design pelamin dah finalized & baju win n wan pun dah di-final fitting-kan tadi.. they fit us well..alhamdulillah..utk 3 minggu akan dtg ni, dah tak bley mkn byk atau kurang lagi..kot2 badan naik or turun. within 3 weeks yang hectic dan stressful, anything can happen rite?
payment yg sepatutnya pun dah diselesaikan.

maka, pelamin + baju bersanding utk 27 mac 2011 = CHECKED!

hiccups..

we are experiencing a few hiccups..small and annoying ones.. contoh?
- cuti kahwin yang limited..akibat tidak di-permanent-kan lagi sampai skrg. terima kasih.
- pakej pelamin + pakaian bersanding "lengkap" tak sediakan "corset"..lengkap kan? buduh..but thanks to my beautiful ikeen,, saved my day.
- butik pelamin yg tak organize. sekejap kata cmni, sekejap kata cmtu..kalau tak kerana duit da letak, dah lama aku berambus.
- doorgift yang menyeksakan, namun masih boleh repair..insyaallah.
- harga setem yg extreme. byk kad cuba utk dihantar by hand..
dll.

SERIOUSLY in a bad mood. keep away!

Thursday, March 3, 2011

insiden bunga

telah pergi ke floristika, bangsar utk membeli bunga-bungaan untuk hantaran, deko pelamin & deko meja makan beradab bersama kak eiffa..

order dibuat dengan seorang staff bernama Rayner, sabahan yang cool la jgk..bila tengah order ni, dia asyik bagi remark macam ni "wow banyaknye kakak ni nak beli bunga!" tapi remark tu dibuat dalam hati dia la, jelas tergambar kat muka dia, tapi dia tak sebut. tapi dia ada tanya "byk beli bunga ni kak nak kahwin ke?"..yes la bro..bunga utk wedding.

bila order dah buat, dia pun start key-in kan order tadi dalam komputer dia..sambil tu dia tanya nak kasi deposit berapa? i said RM50 je..dia tak setuju, dia ckp at least RM100 la kak. (naseb kak eiffa bwk duit lebih, so oke la tapi kenapa nak deposit byk sgt pun.?) dia key in first sekali garberra daisy x 30.. tiba-tiba terkeluar figure "RM225"..terkejut abu pulak tengok harganya..pahal mamat ni? mahal nak mampus pulak, *pengsan*

berikut adalah conversation kami:

win: eh..nanti..nanti..kenapa mahal sgt ni? (ni baru garberra, belum roses + carnation..duhh!)
ray: kakak nak 30 kan? betul la ni.
win: (mengeluarkan calculator dan mula membuat kira2) tapi kenapa mhl sangat.? *cuak*
ray: satu bundle RM7.50. 30 bundle RM225 la..
win: eh tak..tak..!! saya bukan nak 30 bundle..saya nak 30 kuntum je! *panik*
ray: hahahaha ooohh...saya ingatkan 30 ni bundle..rupanya kuntum..!
win: *lega* u jgn la silap mcm tu..i pengsan.!

fakta:
1. 1 bundle = 10 kuntum = RM7.50
2. 30 bundle = 300 kuntum = RM225!
3. permintaan sebenar = 30 kuntum = 3 bundle sahaja = RM22.50

tak ke cuak aku dah??

semua went well, pick up date: 25 Mac 2011..one day before the solemnization ceremony!

hiasan hantaran = CHECKED!
hiasan bilik tidur pengantin = CHECKED!
hiasan meja makan beradab = CHECKED!

Monday, February 28, 2011

Invitation in progress..

Tinggal tiga minggu lebih je lagi. It's time to send out the invitations! Salah satu cara utk mengutip alamat kawan2 yg updated is thru fb event.. TERIMA KASEH FACEBOOK! muaahh..mmuaahh!!

so i've made my fb event invitation just now..alhamdulillah terus mendapat sambutan..;)
to those who i haven't invite, just wait..insyaallah ada nnti..skrg dah penat tgk laptop..kena offline n sambung esok..

yess dear friends, ada yg terima dua invitations..ada yang tiga,,tu semua event lain2..sila perhati nama events tu ye..dont get confuse..like what i said to a best friend just now, tu la akibatnya bila kahwin dgn clasmate!..circle of friends yg sama, means wan and i have to send out two invitations..cool jugak in a way,, kasik kwn2 puas makan kenduri kami..heeee~

Sunday, February 27, 2011

baju nikah kami.

dah siap. *lega+sukeeeeee!!!*..bila sampai rumah, terus letakkan sebelah menyebelah my baju and wan's baju..then letakkan kain samping wan sekali..tersangat sweet.! alahai..SAYA SANGAT GEMBIRA..alhamdulillah, urusan baju nikah dah selesai.. tudung+veil will be from kakak mekapku yg comel itu. songkok wan and both kasut kami pun dah sedia..

maka,
BAJU NIKAH WAN & WIN dari hujung rambut ke hujung kaki = CHECKED!

baju nikah dah siap.

gelabah betul rasanya hari ni sebab sekejap lagi nak pegi tgk, try and bawak balik kain baju nikah yang dah siap di-transform menjadi baju nikah..get it? baju yang akan dipakai sewaktu wan sebut "aku terima nikahnya Mazuin binti Hashim dengan mas kahwin RM80 tunai" tu..

harap2 oke.! :)

kesinambungan entry : caterer ku salah tarikh

(sila baca entry sebelum ni sebelum baca entry ni. terima kasih)

maka saya terus immediately call caterer yang satu lagi. datuk tu yg akan cater food for my wedding on sunday..

win: datuk, bila tarikh wedding saya?
datuk: erk.. bulan depan kan? 27 haribulan mac
win: alhamdulillah..betul2..
datuk: kenapa tanya cmtu?
win: (menceritakan fasal caterer yg satu lagi)
datuk: oh..tidak2...kita tahu tarikh kita bila. jgn risau.
win: baik. bye.

hahahahahhahahaha..tenang sikit hati ni.

caterer ku salah tarikh!

fakta: my nikah day will be on saturday the 26th..
fakta: semalam adalah saturday the 26th..

sama kan? tapi ofcourse la sampai ke pagi ni, saya belum dinikahkan lagi..sebab, semalam baru lah 26 FEBRUARI 2011.. sedangkan my date is not in FEBRUARI.

rupanya ada org confuse. MY CATERER FOR NIKAH CEREMONY TELAH HANTAR MAKANAN PADA 26 FEBRUARI 2011, IAITU SEMALAM. dia pelik, sebab bila dia sampai, rumah takde org, takde rupa mcm kenduri pon..memanglah bang, kendurinya bulan depan.! nasib baik caterer yg utk 100 org yg buat silap. kalau yg utk 1000 org buat silap mcm mana? naya la!

walaupun dia tidak menyatakan bahawa dia memang silap 100% (seolah-olah nak put the blame on me), tapi mujur dia tidak charge saya pun. sebab saya yang plan and uruskan wedding saya sendiri..takkan saya boleh tersilap tarikh wedding sendiri kot..? no way man..lagi pulak, i'm preparing bagai nak rak macam org obsess, saya tidak silap. awak yg silap. sori sikit ye. geram btol.

anyway, hubungan baik terpelihara, dia kate "takpelah, dah nak silap nak buat macam mana?" lalu meninggalkan sedikit makanan tersebut ke orang2 rumah saya. maka semalam kami makan sedap! heheh. thanks btw abg caterer. tapi seriously, i did not tell u that my kenduri is 26th FEBRUARY oke? please,please accept that fact.

Monday, February 21, 2011

fitting baju!

yess..semalam!. omg..my baju bersanding dah siap and sangat gorgeous!! whoohoooooooooooo
*happy*

tapi bila fitting, oppss..rupanye saya mengurus..kena adjust baju tu, buang 1 inci kiri, 1 inci kanan.. byk nye beza..tetapi perlu ke berat badan ditambah? tak perlu!!!.sbb kalau berat bertambah, shape tak berubah, cuma perut sahaja maju ke depan..so tak payah susah2..lgpun 3 kali kakak tu cakap "awk cantik je pakai baju ni sebab kurus, tinggi.." hahahaha
*saya dah kembang-kembang*

baju bersanding = CHECKED!

final fitting = 5mac2011.

Friday, February 18, 2011

penunjuk arah

walaupun dalam kad ada peta, tapi penunjuk arah still plays an important part. deny it all u want, but it's true.

so semalam saya sudah print penunjuk arah saya! :) for both sides of kenduri! since around my house there are too many landmarks, jadi penunjuk arah saya ada 3 sahaja, oke kwn2? tapi memandangkan rumah wan jauh dari landmark, jadi penunjuk arah dia diletakkan dari tol exit UPM sehinggalah dekat rumah wan, total ada 9 semuanya..yess, 9! :) biar banyak asal orang sampai.

mine are printed on pink papers and his are on peach. cari yg A3 bukan A4 oke? ;P

jadi, penunjuk arah = CHECKED!

Thursday, February 17, 2011

sila fikir kuat.

percaya atau tidak, semua perkara dalam wedding list telahpun berjaya untuk:
- disediakan sampai siap; atau
- telah disediakan tapi (oleh sebab tak boleh disiapkan awal2) akan disiapkan dekat2 nak sampai tarikh nanti.
patutlah tak panic. sekarang adalah masa untuk fikir kuat-kuat, apa lagi yang tertinggal.? cepat fikir!

kad jemputan kahwin ~ final?

yess..this time memang betul2 final.

the wedding card package with this stupid pffttt wedding card shop includes cards, boxes and buntings..
the cards and buntings have long arrived and safely kept in my house..but up till yesterday, i hv yet to received the boxes. the reason being "no stock"!

last week i called to complain that 18 of my wedding cards have no inlay in it (that made me furious by the way)..such lame defect huh? yeah, as lame as this shop. they informed me that they can remedy that for me, but since i was also waiting for the boxes stock to arrive, they asked me to come by the shop next wednesday (yesterday).

so yesterday, after calling them several times, asking whether the boxes are ready, i came to the bloody shop with mum and sis. while i was there, they quickly counted the boxes and with a big smile they said "ni boxes dah cukup" dalam hati aku "u better cukup this time, kalau tak aku bakar kedai ni!" tapi di luar hati, hanya senyuman, bukan apa, dah kali keempat dtg, they didn't get to me anymore..dah tak kuasa nak marah.

tiba2 budak lelaki si designer amature kad kami itu ckp "kak, inlay utk kad tu tak ada la, boleh ke kita ganti dengan boxes"..i calmly replied "tak boleh"..so he spoke to the fon with (i'm sure) that stupid girl from before. and then again he asked "kak, kita gantikan kad dgn kotak2 ye?" and again i replied "taknak, saya nak kad" kelam kabot dia *ahaahah*

rupanya adik aku sorg ni dah panas da muka dia..dia pulak yg marah and she said "kalau kita dah marah dah"..well ira, u know what, this is the fourth time i've been coming here, there is no f**king use of getting mad, if they are stupid as a cow, they will always be as stupid as a cow..get it? so again, i smile. :)

tiba2 perempuan bertudung sorang lagi ni yg plg amature and bodoh pegi tanya soalan paling bodoh dalam dunia ni, "kak, kita kasik akak softcopy, akak print sendiri boleh ke"..muka ira dah panas, dah menggeleng kepala..tapi aku jwb, "saya tanak softcopy, saya nak inlay"..dia dengan beraninya tanya lagi "kita ada softcopy, akak boleh print je"..i answered, calmly still "kalau saya kena print, inlay ni depan belakang, lari lah (margin) dia"..the bitch stopped asking after that,

sambil menunggu si budak lelaki designer amature itu, tiba2 ada sepasang lovebirds dtg, obviously a customer.mintak dorg punye bunting.perempuan bitch tu suro dorg pegi kedai lg satu kat bwh..couple tu complain la "kitorg dari bwh, di suro naik atas, then di suro turun balik"..perempuan bitch ckp "tapi kak, memang ada kat bawah"..so couple tu malas nak argue, then mereka turun je. kasihan.!

tiba2 budak lelaki si designer tu dtg, "kak ni kan kad akak?".."yes!".. dia ckp lagi, "ni ada lebih dari 18 ni saya kasik akak ye"..then i answered "boleh pun".. he chuckled je. tapi ada jugak inlay yg dipasang tu terbalik! bodoh kan dorg ni?

selepas chow, terserempak dengan perempuan bodoh yg mula2 dulu, dia tegur "dah selesai kak?" aku jawab "harap kali ni cukup lah bilangan kotak ni ye".. ira tergelak kuat. ahahaha,,padan muka kau perempuan..ty lagi.

sampai ke kereta, terus bukak enjin n aircond, duduk la kami bertiga mengira boxes takot tak cukup..sebabnya, dah terlampau serik tak mahu pegi kedai ni lagi dah..EVER! turned out boxes tu cukup n berlebih 7 lagi! *alhamdulillah*

maka dengan ini saya berikrar dan berjanji tidak akan menjejakkan kaki saya lagi ke KEDAI KAD KAHWIN AMAZON DI PERTAMA COMPLEX, KUALA LUMPUR dan saya berikrar untuk mewar-warkan kepada kwn2 saya supaya jangan menjadi mangsa kedai tersebut sewaktu mereka ingin menempah kad kahwin mereka nanti.!

by the way,
wedding card = CHECKED!
bunting = CHECKED!
boxes for gifts = CHECKED!

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

cerita DJ

cerita DJ (i mean PA System) pulak,

i sent out zillions of email asking for quotation DJ. only 4 replied:
the first one tersangat mahal sebab siap ada penyanyi lagi.
second one agak mahal sebab pakej dia include pengacara majlis yang profesional.
the third one, price dia sgt berpatutan tapi recently just divorced,
and last but not least, harga dia too cheap

the first and second tak mau lah sebab tak perlu penyanyi n pengacara. buatnye penyanyi suara aneh cmne kan? pengacara tak perlu sebab my majlis adalah majlis kahwen biasa yg people come and go tu...bukannya majlis yg ada aturcara dan masa yg fixed.

the third one, takot dia tak profesional n turn my majlis into a sad one sebab ironi kan a recently divorced guy jadik dj majlis kahwin. nanti pasang semua lagu sedih and benci perempuan, haru.

the fourth one, too cheap takot tak bes pulak servis dia sbb murah sgt, org baru ke kayu ke? tak tau lah tu.

selepas 2 minggu mencari, akhirnya semalam, DJ dah confirm. bukannya salah satu dpd 4 yg di atas pun.

the other day, dekat wedding colleague mindef (yang sama dgn kompang), besides kompang yang sedap (tapi mahal) tu, DJ dia pun cool je. bersahaja dan flexible..siap bwk mic pegi ke pintu pagar nak tunggu pengantin lelaki sampai,..DJ yg tak kayu n tak rigid...harga pun berpatutan dengan harga semasa.

i asked for his card during wedding tu. tapi dia tak available. adik dia (merangkap partner dia) ada. he assured me that his brother lebih kurang mcm style dia.tak dpt abg dpt adik dia, oke la tu kot.insyaallah oke :)

so, DJ: CHECKED!

cerita kompang lagi.

kompang yang di gombak, group yang main dekat wedding my colleague kat mindef raya cina yg lepas charge sampai RM450..i think that is too much :(..wlaupun sedap bunyi kompang dorg, terpaksa jugak let go.
kalau group kompang dari linggi nak charge RM500 oke lah considering kos transport utk 20 org kan? tapi ni kat gombak dorg charge smpai byk mcm tu. tak dpt lah.

apapun, kompang dah confirm dah, thanks to wan.

kompang: CHECKED!

bunga telur & bunga manggar 2

seronoknya bulan februari byk cuti free..membuatkan byk benda boleh diuruskan tanpa kena mintak cuti..:)

so yesterday wan and i and mum and sis went to Nilai..carik bunga telur n bunga manggar..

bunga telur: CHECKED!
bunga manggar: CHECKED!

mak n ira semalam jadik gila tgk bunga (so did i)..skrg dah contemplating nak guna bunga fresh or artificial?? bunga fresh mmg jauh lg cantik tapikan, kena buat last2 minit..too many things to do kan last minute? i'm not a last minute person, i am not! hmm..we'll see how.

p/s lantern or lamp? :)

Monday, February 14, 2011

doorgift 2

doorgift utk semua tetamu - CHECKED!

kotak utk isi gift rabu ni dpt semua, kiranya dah selesai..& isi nya pun dah settle..terima kaseh kepada sponsor2 yang memberi isi2 nya atau memberi diskaun utk isi2 nya. mmmuuaahhh!!

borang-borang kahwin for her

borang yg kena isi:
1. borang 1 - 2 salinan
(kena dpt kan pengesahan imam di kariah masing2)

requirements yg perlu:
1. HIV Test
2. Kursus Kahwin

documentation yg perlu fotostat:
1. i.c. - 1 salinan
2. sijil kursus kahwin - 1 salinan
3. i.c. ayah (atau wali) - 1 salinan
4. surat nikah parents - 1 salinan

kepilkan semua dokumen di atas dan dokumen tunang anda (yg dah lengkap) dan hantar ke pejabat agama utk dptkan borang hijau tu...!

dah dpt borang hijau, either keep it or imam kariah anda akan simpan sehingga tarikh nikah, oke?

Sunday, February 13, 2011

addresses

dearest friends, i am in the midst of collecting your addresses for an obvious reason..please email me ur addresses mazuin.hashim@yahoo.com OR pm me @facebook.. OR leave a comment here OR sms me, call me OR any way that u think fits u well.. for those who i have ur names listed as invitees, i'll send u a card..~

doorgift.!

i seriously like the idea of giving edible things to the guess.. walau sedikit, bolehlah buat kunyah2 kan..? budak2 pun suke.

besides that, i also like the idea of giving telur to the guess..it's our tradition..i should preserve that tradition..

i think i've made my mind..but so long as nothing has been bought yet, ideas are just ideas and they may be changed, depending on the circumstances.

doorgift: CHECKED!

Friday, February 11, 2011

*pelamin + baju* mcm mana ni???

*shivering*..baju untuk wedding my side dah siap...ahad depan boleh pegi tgk n buat early fitting..! excited + takot.. ada banyak sgt "what ifs" dalam kepala skrg.. ni lah padahnya bertempah baju wedding.. kan lebih baik sewa apa yg dah ada? mcm baju untuk wedding wan's side..dah tau cmne rupanya..hati pun tenang je..:) (but then baju baru lagi lah best..kan?)..contoh what ifs?:

1. what if my badan berubah shape (ramai org takot gemok) what if i lose more weight and baju tu loose? mmg boleh adjust, tp sekeping je la..tak cantek btol badan terlampau sekeping..org kata tinggi kurus ala model konon..tu org putih boleh la. org msia suka yg gebu2..(haha)

2. i asked for 2 specific colours..the other day, they don't really agree with the second colour..they suggest other colour, i was oke with their suggested colour but i insisted to have them follow my colours..they said oke..but what if they are not oke?? then rosak la segala2 nya,, sebab my family's going to pakai theme kaler kedua tu..kalau dia tuka, my family tak kena dgn my theme..wth??

bila perkara ini dibincang dengan wan, dia ckp, "ur what ifs won't happen darling.." haha..me, freaking out? normal.!

anyway..i should be googling pelamin2 yg best..sbb next ahad bila pergi tgk baju + fitting tu, we'll be discussing design pelamin jugak..then utk my side, perkara baju sanding + pelamin akan settle, cuma tunggu masa shj *heaven*

44days left..uuuu :)

EXAMPLES OF A BIG NO NO FOR ME:

Thursday, February 10, 2011

bunga-bunga

mlm td with mum n sisters, kami pergi flower shop. tujuan? untuk tunjuk kat mak harga dia mcm mana, so dia boleh tolong decide banyak mana dan jenis apa nak beli..bila sampai, masuklah freezer room tu.

tapi agak kecewa bila tengok bunga ada sikit je.sikit sgt..tak sampai 40% dpd banyaknya bunga masa 1st time dtg situ. tapi takpelah bukannya nak beli terus kan? nak order dulu, sebab banyak.

so pegi lah ke satu2 jenis bunga, tertunduk2 tgk harga.. ingat kan last time harga bunga kat situ macam mana? (http://awinthinksitstime.blogspot.com/2011/01/floristika-bangsar.html)

geramnye, semalam harga roses RM36?..mana yang RM22 tu? gerber daisy pun dah layu2 je..n tak ada price tag..berapa harga dia ni..mak sampai tanya..mana bunga yang murah? sume mhl je..ntah lah mak.. mari pergi tanya budak2 staf kedai ni

cepat2 cari staff kedai tu n tanya:

win: the other day i came here there are bunch of roses that cost RM22 per bouquet..do u still have it? because i saw those with RM36 price tag only

staf: those RM36 are similar with those RM22 that u saw before this. they are the same

win: that's very expensive. why is that? (dah mula kecewa yang teramat sangat dan mula berfikir untuk settle down dgn bunga artificial)

staf: because of the valentine's day miss.

win: ohhh..(lega!!) so the price won't stay that way for very long, rite?

staf: rite.

win: (semakin lega dan mula tersenyum2 sendiri, tak pyh fikir artificial flowers!) so when will the price be reduced to it's original state?

staf: i think during march. because the valentine's day price is going to be applicable throughout february only. can i have ur contact number so i can contact and inform u as soon as the price is decreased.

hahahahahah..leganya hati ni!!..lega sangat..tadi dah cuak dah..naseb baek..heeee.sekian.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

bunga telur & bunga manggar

next mission adalah: bunga telur hunting..warna tema senang nak cari. tapi nak cari yang sepuas hati punya cantek, kena la merayau semahu-mahunya. hunting bunga telur sambil beli material untuk bunga manggar. saya nak bunga manggar yang rimbun. boleh?


apabila mengiring pengantin, siapa yang paling sesuai dijadikan budak bunga manggar? Is dengan As oke kot? tapi As tu kecik lagi, susah nak control. hmm..to be decided soon.

Monday, February 7, 2011

sesudah wan mengira kad nya..

sepatutnya ada 1000 keping.:

win nye tak cukup 20,.wan nye terlebih 10.., so after sum up everything, mana lagi 10 tu????

wan nye semua oke,.. win nye 18 tiada inlay..how??

kotak yg dipesan juga tiada stok..dari haritu..sampai bila nak tunggu..tolong pantas sikit..aku nak sekkkarrranngg! supaya boleh pegi amek n tak payah dtg tgk muka kau lagi..bodoh!

makin geram dgn org kad kahwin ni..hello, I hate u kedai kad kahwin amazon di Pertama Complex, kau bikin aku panasss..

sesi melipat kad jemputan kahwin

sambil tengok tv di hari ahad yang indah, tangan ni leka melipat kad yang tersusun tinggi di ruang tamu ni..bessss je rasa hati ni..tapi kadang2 rasa panas jugak sikit sbb inlay yang mereka tampal di bahagian dalam kad ini dilekatkan senget, almaklumlah amatur buat kerja kan?? (i seriously don't recommend these people!!!)..bila terlekat senget, maka bila lipat jugak, inlay jadi renyuk la. tapi takde choice sbb nak cabot inlay tu karang koyak pulak. langsung tak payah.

ada jugak inlay yang langsung tak lekat pada kad..itu takpe lah sbb boleh la gam kan sendiri..sampai la tahap kebengangan yang tertinggi sekali apabila mendapati terdapat 18 kad yang kosong shj, inlay langsung tak ada!!!!!!!!! arggghhhhhh...gilaaaaaa la dorg ni!!!!! tak sukeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! tak pasal2 kena pegi menghadap muka bodoh dorg sekali lagi untuk komplen fasal 18 kad ni..

mak ckp "naseb baik ko buat kad awal2..boleh la mintak diremedikan" iyer mak,, syukur..syukur

tapi takpelah, sabar aja lah..sebab dalam 100% kad hanya 5% yang reject..1% kene gam sendiri.. btw, i still love my card..

Sunday, February 6, 2011

when should i post the cards?

since the wedding invitation cards are done, my dad has been asking me to bring them along when we go to some places,..distributing them is his intention.

but then, it's only early February, we can't distribute cards this soon..! or people may forget about the wedding date as soon as march arrives. the best time will be within two weeks before the actual date..

so i reminded my dad and he said "oh yes. i agree with u.." i guess i am not the only one whose excited about the wedding..:)

more about rumah.

first, we are going to need curtains..all windows are accounted for..5 panels..colour?? of course.. :)
second, we are going to need refrigerator..i can't survive without ice-cold water..pleaseeee
third, a bed and a mattress..for where we are going to sleep in..
fourth, washing machine...please don't let me wash our clothes manually! i've had enough of that during study-years :)
and fifth, dapur+gas..i prefer home-cooked food..since we are going to have refrigerator on the upper list, we can store everything there..

but, after the wedding, we should focus on painting the house first..so when we are actually moving in, we don't need to make ourselves comfortable with the odour of the paint..(if so happens that we don't use the odourless one..! heeehe) and yes,, i need my darling to cut off the grass...oh wait, it's not grass, it's lalang.!!

then, only after that, we'll move in, and slowly fill the house with furniture..it's nice to get a chance to refresh our lives together, especially when we have to work on the finance on our own, penat lelah, hasil titik peluh sendiri. And a big thanks to our families, both sides, for emotional and physical support..

rumah.

i've mentioned this on my primary blog..
http://awinh.blogspot.com/2011/01/rumah.html
here is our plan fasal rumah selepas wedding:

the truth is we can afford house rental, what we find hard to afford is the deposit..the deposit will usually includes two months rental + the bills, letrik dan air + first month rental.

if and only if the rental is going to be RM600, we are going to need RM2000 for starters..(please do the math)..if we are going to stay in KL, a decent apartment costs RM600 per month, a nicer one, RM800..of course, we are not considering any apartment that costs more than that, seriously, for what kan?? but luckily (?? or did i mean sadly) we are not going to rent any apartment in KL, so the cost will be reduced...

deposit is affordable still, but can i choose not to pay any deposit and just pay the rental instead..where can we find a house which the owner has no intention of collecting deposit??

well, this is not a new story nor it's a new plan..we've found it, the house, soon to be our house, nice and quiet place, affordable, comfortable, and best of all, no need to pay the deposit..just the rent..!! just like what we need. *big smile* :)

Friday, February 4, 2011

cuti?

another big question comes to mind,,..how to plan cuti? especially when the wedding and menyambut menantu are separated by one week...i can't imagine working in between events..our minds are focused on so many things but work!! we are going to be exhausted because of the kenduri lagi, pindah masuk rumah baru lepas tu, mentally and physically man!!..

my nature of work doesn't really tie me up so tightly, in other words i can cuti panjang2..but wan's nature of work prohibits him from taking long leaves..kesiannya dia! dah la dgn bos baru!! if tak ley cuti panjang, when should we go for our first honeymoon then?? (or should we just settled with our 2nd honeymoon in July?? thus that becomes THE ONLY honeymoon??) (plus, in july we are no longer pengantin baru, are we??)
whatever happens, wan needs to decide soon..so it will not b too late to make a reservation there..whatever/however his decision is going to be, i'm with him.

guess lists.

let see.. i've been to three different primary schools, two secondary schools, asasi undang2, dgree law bls and degree law llb n currently working in mindef..there are so many groups of people that i would like to invite.. but the big question is "if i invite them, will they come to my wedding?"

that fact kinda scares me a lot..the fact that people won't come..because there are few friends whom i did not attend their weddings, though for valid reasons, but still i did not attend. Besides that, some of them lives outside lembah klang, JOHOR for instance, i have quite a few Johor friends....will they care to come.?

some, though they live in shah alam, when invited, they already said, kl jauhlah..itu lah ini lah..shah alam jauh? belum johor lagi..kedah?? kelantan?! haih.

i am in fact being paranoid. :) mum said, jemput aje lah..insyaallah dorg mesti dtg.